The year 2020 has been one hell of a year. Between Covid-19 and social unrest, lack of opportunities to socialize, 2020 has taken a toll on everyone's psyche. We are expecting that to change in 2021. We are, therefore, looking ahead to the new year with much excitement.
2021 will bring changes to our website, which we hope you will all enjoy and find helpful and they will include a shift into more discussion of male sex and sexuality.
As challenging as the year 2020 has been, one good thing has come out of it: it has provided opportunity for internal reflection. People who have followed this website for a while know that we believe all bodies are beautiful and that nudism/naturism is good, healthy and fun. We have concluded, however, that there is a negative current that runs through much of the nudist culture. Too many nudists promote shame of sex and sexuality in both subtle and overt ways. One administrator of a nudist online group recently chastised members for posting pictures of genitalia. She proclaimed, "When we take off our cloths we do not shed our morals!" Her message was clear: Bodies are fine, sex is nasty.
There is, of course, a problem with that message, because sexuality is as much a part of who we are as are our bodies. Feeling shame about sex is as damaging to the psyche as is shame about our bodies.
Thinking about shame and sex, we realized that keeping sexual content separated off into the "Back Door" section of our website only reinforces the damaging idea that sex is dirty or wrong and that it needs to be hidden away. We will, therefore, be moving some of our "Back Door" content into the main public are of our website (with age restrictions) where we can make it richer and more interesting. Its going to get pretty steamy and will be geared toward men who want to expand their sexual practice to be safe, exciting and fun. As a sense of what is to come:
Coming soon: Our guide to self-fucking.
Also note that in anticipation of the new year, we are offering an online sale in our Etsy shop. Between now and Christmas, get 15% off on orders of $40 or more by entering the coupon code "COMFY15" at checkout.